 What is a vacation or journey without a little fleeting love for the soul? For me, it would be a disappointing and devastating one. Granted, I don’t consider myself a pro or expert on the subject, but I do find what I’m looking for each and every time I hit the road. So I thought perhaps I could suggest a little guide to help those poor souls that travel far and wide and never embrace the beauty of the opposite sex. So let’s begin…
Rule #1. Forget the past. I have never met anyone who can truly live there, so don’t try. Flush away all the past disappointments and defeats today; begin a new chapter in your life. We’ll call this chapter Today, here, and now, and we won’t quit till the job is done. Boys remember that every woman want to find romance; and Girls, well it will probably be the nervous guy without any approach style or confidence that appreciates you the most; so be nice. The first thing you need to do is make a commitment to the cause. I don’t care if you’re the shyest person in the world, because there is someone just as shy as you waiting for you on this planet. The only way to find this person is to look for them, and say hello. That’s it, just say hi. Don’t sit there and worry about what to say or do in future, because you can’t live there either. You’ll probably end up wasting time and psyching yourself out of the duty at hand. The moment you see someone you’re attracted to, forget everything and just walk up and say hi. It’s that simple. And for heaven sakes, Forget about pick up lines, pick up lines are for losers, real men and women of substance simply engage in conversation. So embrace the moment and go for it; remembering this golden rule that was passed on to me be one of my college buddies we called Chops. “It is our job to ask and their job to say yes or no, and if you’re not getting laid it’s simply because you’re not getting shot down enough.” Given the choice of having to get rejected ten times to find some fleeting romance, what would you do? Take my advice and just do it, because the juice is worth the squeeze. And when it does happen, the last thing you will be thinking about is all the prior rejections it took to get there. You’ll taste the sweet nectar of passion and be entranced in the present moment; this I promise. The first girl I was able to hook up with in Costa Rica was completely random. She was sitting on the beach in her little cute surfer gear. I had no intention trying to pick her up; I just wanted to know how the waves were today. So I went up to her without any hidden agenda, which is always good because it sets the other person at ease right away, and simply asked her a question. We got into a quick chat about nothing all that important, and later that night I saw her at the bar; from there no additional effort was required. She felt immediately comfortable with me like we were already friends; I leave the rest up to your imagination.
Rule #2. Just ask; ask anything all the time. The more people you encounter and talk with on the road; the greater your chances. Don’t just focus on the nightlife. During the day is just as good a time as any, usually it’s even better. People tend to have their sexual guard up more during the twilight hours, so use the daytime to meet as many potential mates as you can. If you chat or share a laugh with someone during the day, when you see them out again, they will be open to you in a different and friendly way. So to speak, half the battle is already done, you have taken down their guard. The rule to live by is this; ask simple questions you know they will be able to answer. “What time is it?”, “Do you know this place?” Etc. This will start the ball rolling. Follow this question up with a more personal one that you say with enthusiasm, like “Oh where are you from” “Do you travel much?” etc, etc. Follow these two questions up with a little personal information of your own that is interesting and you think they will be able relate to or find common ground with. And so now your half way home; and ready to hit it out of the park.
Rule #3. Be cute, genuine and convincing. Take your cues from the great actors and actresses of the day. Give a genuine smile, make tons of sweet eye contact, laugh at all their jokes and bat your eyes whenever possible. Everyone has a story to tell; so tell it. In my studies of psychology, it’s a proven fact that the best way to build rapport with someone is to share your true self. Try to think of the funniest stories you have to tell, and your coolest moments, we all have a couple; and share them. If you can’t relate to this and you’re a complete geek or nerd, maybe telling a story about one of your coolest friends and making it your own is a good idea. I don’t suggest lying; but if all else fails and desperation creeps in; do whatever it takes. No man or women should be without love or romance in their life; it simply makes the world a better place to live in. Usually, travel romances are short term; so you can apply this tip if absolutely necessary, but definitely try to avoid it if there is the possibly of anything long term. All lies are eventually uncovered, so try your best to be a genuine person.
Rule 4. Don’t say it; just suggest it in the most round about way possible. Everyone knows what “let’s go back to my place for a drink” means, or better yet “Let’s go to the beach and sit under the stars”. If you don’t know what I’m talking about here, then there may be no help for you; considering a monastic life might just be the right choice for you. Simply put, never try to close the deal until late in the fourth quarter. If it takes all the way until the morning, then so be it. Nobody wants anymore pressure then they already have in life and everyone wants to keep their op-out options available. So again, just say hi, be cute, be open, be suggestive, and attempt to get secluded.
Rule 5. It’s the bottom of the ninth and the bases are loaded; it’s time hit it out of the park. So here is how to do it. To start with, you will need that moment when your eyes connect and there is no need for words. Don’t rush this moment, let it linger as if you’re looking into the eyes of your true long lost love. Next, pretend it’s the last kiss you might ever give in your entire life, the kiss a soldier or nurse gives to their love before going off to the war. A soft slow passionate kiss will never do you wrong. Forget sloppy tonsil hockey, sucking or biting until the third or fourth kiss. A first kiss will tell you almost everything you need to know, so go slow and don’t rush it. Make believe it was the best kiss of your life; even if they completely suck. From this point on just be as romantic and endearing as possible, and you might just get lucky. My last piece of advice is this. If the new found love in your life won’t go all the way, make the suggestion that you give them an orgasm any way they would like. Once someone has had one, they always eventually want another. If you give them one orgasm by whatever means possible, you will get sweet sex eventually, it’s just a matter of time; so remember rules # 4 and 5 in the morning they may just pay off with a grand slam.
Stay tuned on this channel for the upcoming article on advanced techniques on fleeting love and romance on the road. If you have found this information useful drop me a comment below.
P.S. If you’re still having problems then watch the movies Swingers and Roger Dodger until you know them by heart. They’re the bible when if comes to game of seduction.
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